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Questioning Masculinity

This blog mirrors Paul’s film Shoulder to Shoulder, Men and Vulnerability which asks men about their experiences of being vulnerable and how this affects their emotional and relational health.

Archive of January, 2008

Manhood at the Movies

Over the winter holiday season I saw more movies than usual. 2 of these I wanted to reflect and comment on because they raise questions for me about masculinity.

Lars and the Real Girl is about a 27 year-old man who buys a silicone sex doll to work through the pains of his childhood and fears of becoming an unlovable man.

Better overviews of the film can be found on the web and I like this one by Grace McKeaney.

Into the Wild follows 22 year-old Chris for two years, while he escapes family and society in search of truth and freedom in the wild spaces between his mid-America home and Alaska.

I did a long search for a review mixing description with some insightful reflection. I didn’t find any. If you have any suggestions, please post. One post I did find interesting was this one by Stephanie Zacharek.

But this is not a film critique. I prefer to meditate on movies to discover something new about myself and the world I live in. My MediaMindful site expands on this approach.

What I found most interesting in these movies is a connection between manhood, suffering, and forgiveness.

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